When I originally started this channel, I thought I was on the right path. Seeing all these exciting nightlife venues, massages places, and ways of meeting freelancers …
I thought I had found the perfect place, the perfect lifestyle.
Over the last few years, I’ve come to realize that only a man incapable of meeting regular women ends up paying for professionals. Because he HAS TO.
A real way a high value man meets high value women in Asia/Thailand is by exuding confidence, displaying his personality, and perhaps adding a bit of whit, and humor to the mix.
I can no longer endorse this pay for play lifestyle, in which guys meet women way out of their league. Make it socially awkward by being honest, and direct about what they want.
Of course, I am just joking. I am joking.
The complete opposite is the case. Over the last few years, the more regular women I met, the less interested I was in meeting regular women. And the more I favored paying for it.
Fast forward to today, and I am more in favor of the entire nightlife scene than ever before. Here’s exactly why – and please keep in mind that this is just my personal opinion. I am not claiming what I said is factual truth.
1. Your Girl Isn’t “HIGH CLASS”
I gotta say years ago, I was indeed excited about meeting regular girls. You know that feeling when you’ve hooked up with a girl, and you feel good afterwards. Yeah, that feeling is entirely gone – and looking back, I am thinking, “Man, what a clown have I been feeling good about hooking up with a girl in Thailand”.
I think the normal, perhaps optimal ways is to low-key enjoy meeting people (including women), but those extreme emotional spikes after hooking up, I think aren’t productive, and likely 100% for delusional ego reasons.
Delusional in the sense that meeting, or hooking up with this girl means something, when in 9/10 cases it means absolutely nothing.
But I know YOU are different. You are not meeting any of these average, or low class girls. You are meeting the high-class ones.
The girl you met has her own fashion line. She is a freaking model, God damn it! And if you want ultimate proof that she is high class, her uncle’s cousin knows a guy who has a coworker, who lives in the U.S., whose girlfriend ones opened the door for Leonardo DiCaprio at a restaurant. Case closed – she is ultimate high-class!
How do you know a guy met a model? He will tell you. Repeatedly.
See, if it weren’t about ego it would be like, “She looks nice. I really enjoyed the time with her. Cool personality” What does she do? She works as a model.
That’s normal. But what do most guys say?
Everything … I mean everything is secondary. The most important thing isn’t her looks, her personality, how much you’ve enjoyed your time with her. The most important thing is how many IG followers she has. That she has her own fashion line. That she is a business-owner. That she is a model!
Let me tell you something …
Most of these girls have an Instagram page with their homemade bikinies or clothing, with about 10 followers – and that constitutes having their own fashion line.
The same applies to being a model, business-owner, whatever.
A friend once ask me to partake in a shooting for their companies clothing line. Had I accepted it, would I suddenly be a model now?
I own 1 share of tesla stock worth about $180 USD – am I an international investor now?
I film videos in different countries – am I an international film producer and director now?
If the answer is yes, than the fact that I work out a few times per week also makes me a professional bodybuilder.
You see, most of this is social media fluff. Meaningless titles, that have little to no impact on the social interaction. If the girl were a surgeon, or fighter jet pilot, then yeah I could see how that alone makes her interesting. But having her fashion line or being a model, how does that change things? It literally means she stands, or stood in front of a camera.
2. You Aren’t Meeting Hotties
You see, all of these ego reason are often why guys are strictly agains paying for it. Paying for it doesn’t count, and it must count.
The second point about all of this …
Picture this …
A woman says, I am not interested in the entirety of men in my country.
I am also not interested in Asian men in generally (who might have a similar cultural background).
Instead, I am only interested in average looking foreign men who don’t speak my language. And I don’t speak their language perfectly either.
Do you see how odd this looks?
I know in Asia/Thailand, this seems perfectly normal from our perspective. But imagine if this were a Western country. Say British women said they don’t like British men. They don’t like Western men in general. Instead, they only like Japanese men, who ONLY speak Japanese.
I believe in most cases, the most high-quality women will always go for high-status LOCAL guys. Not random foreign guys who visit for a few weeks and barely speak the language.
3. The End Is Coming
When you can no longer meet women because she is this or that. Because of delusional ego reasons, you have a more balanced approach. When ego is out of the way, paying for it becomes an option. AND the normal women you meet, you meet them because you are really interested in them. Not because you want to get another lay. You realize that hook up literally is meaningless.
I also had brief periods during which I engaged in what I call ego mental masturbation. Oh she was nice. She said this and that. Her family is wealthy. This other girl has a sugar daddy. Wow! I’m quite the Top G.
No, I am not. And chances are, neither are you.
Overcoming off of this BS is a matter of experience. Literally an issue of volume. The more girls you meet, the less of an issue it will be being attached and falling for one specific girl.
That being said that are steps you can take to prepare.
First of all watching Thailand videos is already a good start. You are doing that already.
Second, you can get my free Thailand strategy video series at KINGEPIC.COM/INSIDER
If you want to take it up a notch, there is also my Thailand Guide as well as the uncensored Telegram group with 120+ members. People who also meet up, go out and pick up girls together regularly. That’s definitely an option for any newbie to safetly jump into the nightlife and red light environment.